How to get her interested with texting


Here’s how to lớn text a girl who’s losing interest & make her want you before it’s too late.

Time is ticking, so pay attention và listen carefully. Especially if:

You want khổng lồ get her excited about meeting up with you

Watch my đoạn clip to discover 11 powerful things you can start doing RIGHT NOW khổng lồ re-light the spark và make her want you:

If you prefer lớn read, this guide is chock full of real life example texts, conversation topics and tips to lớn make her smile every time she reads your texts.

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But before I reveal how to text a girl you like I need to ask you a question to lớn make sure we’re on the same page…

In your next interaction with this girl you’re texting, how vì you want her to kiss you? With an emoticon or with her actual lips?


Obviously you want her lips right?! Because real life face-to-face interactions beat the living sh*t out of virtual ones.

So listen up, because it’s time for you to lớn remember what the real goal of texting is…

The goal of texting is to lớn meet up with her, NOT have long drawn out conversations that go nowhere.

NOTE: If she’s already lost interest và gone from “hot” to “cold” make sure you haven’t made any of these 21 shocking mistakes texting girls.

Face to face meet ups are where the real magic happens. When you can get truly intimate with her.

Never thua thảm sight of the ultimate goal.

How to text girls to lớn meet up with you


Before you can get her out on a date, you need lớn make her both comfortable and excited about the idea of meeting up with you.

No matter how amazing your chemistry is with a girl in person, texting resets the frame và everything starts from square one again.

That’s because texting is a completely different size of communication – it’s an intimate way khổng lồ get lớn know someone better that has its own set of rules và etiquette.

Even if you made out with a girl the last time you saw her and she said “I can’t wait to see you again”, you still need to pump her anticipation and desire for your next meet up over text.


Here are 11 ways lớn stand out from all the competition & become the most exciting guy in her phonebook.

#1: Keep it positive

When texting a girl you like, keep your interactions positive at all times. Your job is to bring her up not haul her down!

If you make a habit of smiling when you text her you’ll naturally inject positivity into your texts.

NEVER say your day was boring. She’s not your venting buddy and moaning about your boss khủng in an attempt to lớn bond over work will not vị you any favors.

Even if your day did truly suck there’s always got lớn be at least one highlight you can pick out, for example:


As a rule if you cannot think of anything fun to say simply put your phone down & come back to it later. It’s never worth texting a girl when you’re in a negative mood.

#2: Keep it playful

Texting is unofficially reserved for light hearted, playful conversation, so unless you want to get friend-zoned avoid getting drawn into boring subject matter that goes nowhere.

Often times women will ask boring questions like “what are you doing?” or “what vì chưng you do?”

Rather than answering “matter of fact-ly” be playful & keep her curious about you, e.g.


Although it may seem lượt thích she wants khổng lồ “chat” about everyday stuff, she secretly doesn’t.

Usually when a woman texts something boring like “how was your day” or “what are you doing?” it’s because she’s bored và is looking for fun relief. So whenever this happens it’s vital you respond upbeat & positively, e.g.


This way you’ll remain a source of fun và an escape from the mundane.

In fact by remaining jokey & essentially disqualifying yourself from anything serious you will keep girls MAGNETICALLY attracted.

Why?… Because:

She’ll never feel awkward opening, reading & replying to your messages

This is the key lớn guaranteeing her eyes light up every time she receives a text from you.

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And the most AMAZING thing about all this is you can get away with saying almost anything you want…even subtly hinting at your true emotions or intentions without scaring her away:


As you can see it’s ALL about your delivery:


By maintaining a light hearted, teasing vibe throughout your texting interactions you won’t come across needy or creepy even when you’re being playfully persistent:


#3: What lớn text a girl when you don’t know what to say

Sometimes it can be difficult khổng lồ think of anything interesting khổng lồ text a girl especially if you barely know anything about her.

BONUS: If she’s not texting back, Discover The Exact Texts you need to lớn get her texting back & out on a date in our next article.

When you’re struggling for ideas start by asking her how that thing she said she was going to bởi vì went… but in a dorky way that makes her eager lớn respond.

In the example below this girl previously said she was going to spend her Sunday afternoon binge watching Iron Man.

I could have just texted her “hey Anna did you finish watching Iron Man?”, but I knew from experience that I’d get a much better result if I dressed it up a little so she couldn’t resist responding.

So I texted her this:


If you have no idea what she’s been up to và want a “go-to” topic that always encourages banter, teasing, giggling and plenty of connecting then I recommend you focus on these things:

Travelling – find out the place in the world she really wants lớn go to, role-play about taking her there sometime & imagine the things you’d vì there.

Schoolyard humour – find out when she had her first kiss, giới thiệu your own first kiss story, joke about how you were the nerd at school, find out if she was a nerd or popular kid, etc.

Pop Culture – find out what TV shows she’s into, flirt with the idea about you binge watching some together some time, use references from those TV shows in your text conversations.


If you discover she’s a trò chơi of Thrones (GOT) fan, for example, you can drop all sorts of funny GOT references into your texts.

She hasn’t explored much of the city, or she doesn’t know the place you’re talking about: “You’ve never been north of the wall have you?”

Then there’s roleplaying…

Roleplaying can go two very different ways depending on how open to sexting she is or isn’t.

There are two categories: Innocent & Naughty.

An innocent roleplaying theme I often play around with is robbing a bank. I say I need a getaway driver and ask her if she’s up for it. We then joke about how we’d get out of town và what we’d bởi vì with all the loot. We then agree to meet at a bar first lớn discuss our big ngân hàng robbery plans.

Then there’s roleplaying with a more naughty theme. Ever heard of 50 Shades of Grey?

In this scenario I playfully ask if she’s a good girl or a bad girl then go from there:


#4: How khổng lồ spot the signs she likes you

A lot of guys don’t know when lớn ask a girl out.

Rather than reading the signs she’s ready, they keep chatting và milk the conversation for too long.


The girl quickly loses interest & they don’t understand where they went wrong.

NEWSFLASH: Girls bởi not want to lớn have long drawn out conversations over text. They want you khổng lồ be a man and ask her out!

After all, the longer you talk to lớn her the more likely you are khổng lồ say something stupid & screw everything up. You will also đại bại all your mystery và destroy her excitement for meeting up with you. If everything’s already been said over text then what’s the point in meeting up?

In fact, so many guys thrive off the validation of her texting back they forget to lớn ask her out altogether!


So listen up, because whenever you see any one of these IOI’s (Indicators of Interest) you should pull the trigger IMMEDIATELY and set up the date:

It will keep her on her toes & make her wonder about you

In this example I texted a girl who hadn’t texted me back in a week. I made sure I kept this initial interaction short và sweet so I could then come back the next day và continue re-building her investment until she was ready for a date:


Ending the conversation is just one of many subtle techniques you can use khổng lồ dramatically change her perception of you, re-build her investment in you và make her fight for your attention ?

#6: Mixing up reply times


Do not always text back immediately. Phối it up.

A great way lớn keep her on her toes is lớn suddenly go radio silent when you’re right in the middle of rapidly texting each other back.

This will keep her hooked, constantly checking her phone & wondering what happened khổng lồ you.

As a general rule if she randomly doesn’t get back khổng lồ you for ages (e.g. 20 minutes) you should make her wait at least 40 minutes (double the time) before texting her back again.

#7: Send it and forget it

The best habit you need to lớn get into is khổng lồ SEND IT và FORGET IT…because as soon as you start overthinking everything bad things happen lượt thích this…

You send her a text & she doesn’t reply. You re-read the text again and again. It’s been over an hour since you sent it, but still no reply…

You read it again. You’re convinced it’s awful. You worry you’ve fucked it all up và you’ve lost her for good. “It’s not too late I can fix this!!!”. You send another text apologising for your awful text and ask her what she’s up to….still no reply….radio silence.

You wait a little longer until you can’t stop yourself from sending another one asking if she’s ok.Radio silence.

“Oh fuck oh fuck oh fuck!!!”. You send another one asking if she got your texts & ask why she’s not replying??!!Radio silence.

You send another one apologising for everything và telling her you really like her.

This is exactly how I behaved with a girl who friend-zoned me at college. Turned out she was at the gym and left her phone at home!!! FACE PALM